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MxJoKeR
Regular user
Nowhere, Oklahoma
173 Posts
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Posted: Sep 16, 2005 1:16pm
I started doing magic before I started doing...um dating girls. It might just be a coincidence but every girl I've ever dated has been interested in me because I was "unique" "funny" "nice"... So I suppose a whole third of the initial attraction came from the magic, that's the unique part. (I'm leaving out good looking not because I think I'm ugly, but because I think a lot of ugly guys get stellar girls so it's not the most important thing) Everytime I meet a girl that I end up going out with she is always interested in at least a couple of tricks. It's like if you met a girl who ate fire for a living. You'd think it was cool and probibly make you think of her a little more often because of it. Magic isn't magic. It's just something you do. I'm sure that some girls would love to date a tight rope walker, it's just something else that makes you you. Being a magician is just something that girls don't see a lot of everyday, so when they do they want to see more and learn more about you...like how well you kiss,,,,hopefully.
Do or Do-Not, There is no try--Yoda
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rmofsky
New user
Boston
29 Posts
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Posted: Sep 18, 2005 8:08pm
This is such an awesome thread!
=r
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Dannydoyle
Eternal Order
14057 Posts
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Posted: Sep 18, 2005 11:13pm
Why does it seem as if all the guys responding here seem to think it is the magic that is working and the women who seem to disagree?
Stop dilluting yourselvs guys. Every woman who has posted disagrees with you. Try to learn.
Danny Doyle
Semper Occultus
In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act....George Orwell
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MxJoKeR
Regular user
Nowhere, Oklahoma
173 Posts
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Posted: Sep 19, 2005 12:52pm
I've never dated any of the girls who post here. Girls are all different. I date the ones who don't have handles on magic websites. They seem to think it's more interesting. I have never done a magic trick that has picked up a girl. I never think that magic is the thing that does it. But the girls I do end up in a relationship with ALL tell me that it was one of the things that made them remember me. No magic will not get a loser a date. It will give a decent guy a leg up on another decent guy who is boring.
Do or Do-Not, There is no try--Yoda
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John Bowlin
Special user
Maryland
827 Posts
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Posted: Oct 8, 2005 5:08am
The same thing that wins an audience in a performance can win a girl...great performance. Will take great performance to keep her too. Just so I don't fan the flames too much..to me a great performance is sincere.
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Joe Russell
Veteran user
Buffalo NY
396 Posts
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Posted: Oct 9, 2005 12:48pm
Magic can absolutly set you apart from the other guys but the secret is to start off strong and as you go along make the converstation be less and less about the magic until its just pure conversation no card no coins just you and her talking.
Who is Tattoo Joe?
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lawrenceng
New user
Calgary
84 Posts
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Posted: Oct 27, 2005 7:39am
I will fess up and admit I picked up magic for meeting the ladies, but never really got to know a girl by first showing her a trick. Only played with it during moments where there's time to kill, for a few good laughs/smiles.
What really did work for me though, would be performing for kids, with the ladies looking. Somehow that really sets off good feelings.
The better half frankly told me she was more impressed by the effort to entertain, then the actual effect, and a david blaine/intense persona just spooks her instead of putting her at ease. That's just one lady's opinion.
thanks y'all
lawrenceng
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paisa23
Inner circle
7 years no smoking. And counting
6387 Posts
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Posted: Oct 27, 2005 3:00pm
WOW really? I mean if you feel that magic will get you a girl, great try it see if it works. But if you as a person are not of good caliber, no matter how much magic you know you will never keep that girl.
Women of all ages love CONFIDENCE period. 4 out of 5 women will tell you that. (COSMO REFRENCE)
Most magicians are good around people and know how to act and talk to people. That shows Confidence.
A lot of us magi's are humorous
I have yet to meet a WOMAN who thought of me as a dork. And yes prior to being married, magic alowed me to meet ALOT of women. It didn't bring them to me like hypnotized slaves, but they saw me as a creative, funny, CONFIDENT, diffrent and Good LOOKING guy(i threw the last one in). That in turn made them want to meet ME. I don't go up to girls in the bars and just show them a trick. I have used it to break the ice. At a party if I saw a girl I wanted to meet I made sure that if I was performing for buddies I would have her assit. There the ice is broken you have gotten her name and have included her in there magical experience. After wards then I would talk to her so forth and so on. But magic alone wont give you a great longterm relationship. But I don't see why the anger or the claims that it is wrong to use magic for that. I mean come on seriously.
Now I'm not like some people here who I have read that say they only do tricks "AT WORK" for tables with cute girls. That is right out STUPID and I don't think you should have a job there. When I worked magic at the restaurants I did go to more tables with women, but that was women of all ages and races. Only because of the above statement. They are more inclined to story telling and effects then most men are. But to say that you as a man who knows how to do a few things of wonder CANNOT use it to show women you have an intrest in is just wrong. Just don't rely on magic, its only an icebreaker. IMHO..
June 22 2012 9:02 AM baby Usnavi was born!
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Roki
Special user
London
640 Posts
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Posted: Nov 1, 2005 8:40am
That is spot on Paisa23 .
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sjdavison
Inner circle
Sussex, England
1156 Posts
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Posted: Nov 1, 2005 9:19am
Oh dear. Magic is a good way to break the ice, if you are not formally performing. But to actually meet and get to know people, it is not the be all and end all.
They have to like you, not just because you can do a few amazing things.
I hope noone has really got into magic just to meet women!!!
Simon
Simon, 25, UK
www.sidavisonmagic.com
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Dannydoyle
Eternal Order
14057 Posts
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Posted: Nov 1, 2005 11:54am
Jay Marshall always said, "If they like you , they will like what you do". Not the opposite.
Danny Doyle
Semper Occultus
In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act....George Orwell
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paisa23
Inner circle
7 years no smoking. And counting
6387 Posts
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Posted: Nov 1, 2005 1:33pm
And I agree 100% my statement is for the performer who would otherwise be shy to talk to a female.
June 22 2012 9:02 AM baby Usnavi was born!
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Joe Russell
Veteran user
Buffalo NY
396 Posts
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Posted: Nov 2, 2005 4:41pm
FUNNY STORY- my friend is a magician at a comedy club so since people are their to laugh he can pretty much get away with any rude, crude, off color joke when he performs at tables. Recently he performed for a group of rowdy married woman with the exception of one rowdy single woman. So he walks up starts doing his routines
and he looks at the girl and said "you know what you should do?, f*** a magician" now that takes some sponge balls, but the funny part about it is that it worked!!!!!!!!
Who is Tattoo Joe?
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AqueousMagiK
New user
65 Posts
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Posted: Nov 7, 2005 12:04am
Haha girls and magic
they are definatly more amazed by it, and more accepting of it, then guys who are usually the ones trying to burn you to the ground.
Aaron Farrugia
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nucinud
Inner circle
New York, New York
1276 Posts
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Posted: Nov 7, 2005 12:40pm
After getting off stage at a comedy club many years, I was sitting with the other talent sipping a gingerale, when this women came up to me and asked if I did magic in the bedroom.
My whole life I had been waiting for some thing like that. I felt like Bond, James Bond.
My answer, You will have to ask my wife that.
"We are what we pretend to be" Kurt Vonnegut, jr.
Now U C It Now U Don't
Harry Mandel
www.mandelmagic.com
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YVRDave
Regular user
Vancouver, BC
104 Posts
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Posted: Nov 20, 2005 4:00am
Magic and Girls - 2 differences I have found. 1) I understand how magic works, 2) It is okay to do magic tricks on the street.
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Art-Fantasy
Regular user
Australia
169 Posts
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Posted: Nov 20, 2005 5:32am
When performing to girls actually to anyone...personality will make them attracted to you without any effort. I try not to overdo magic. I will talk to them like normal people when I am not doing formal shows. I always have a soft spot when performing to girls. Tend to always wanting to get their numbers. but, as much as possible, I do not really wanna try to do magic to meet people. I want to let the magical aura surrounding me even I'm not performing.
This quality was in Dai Vernon as stated by Lewis Ganson in Dai Vernon's book of magic" book and the same remark was made by Dai Vernon about Hofsinzer on the revelationds DVD volume 1&2
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magicdoctor
Veteran user
Wi.
353 Posts
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Posted: Nov 20, 2005 9:43am
Magic is a great way to break the ice, woman love and are emotional, so as a magician your creating a response,emotion, woman love it.
Michael Von Schroeder www.vonmagic.com
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MagicDan21
New user
California
51 Posts
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Posted: Nov 20, 2005 9:29pm
Best magic with a girl- sleeping with her and her not even knowing 
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mc_magi
Special user
Vancouver, BC
949 Posts
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Posted: Nov 20, 2005 11:20pm
That's called drugs matey. ~
Chemical magic effect 101.
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Sean W. Burke
Loyal user
Washington D.C.
298 Posts
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Posted: Nov 23, 2005 11:36am
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On 2005-11-07 12:40, nucinud wrote:
After getting off stage at a comedy club many years, I was sitting with the other talent sipping a gingerale, when this women came up to me and asked if I did magic in the bedroom.
My whole life I had been waiting for some thing like that. I felt like Bond, James Bond.
My answer, You will have to ask my wife that.
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Did your wife ever find out about the lady you met at the comedy club? 
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paisa23
Inner circle
7 years no smoking. And counting
6387 Posts
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Posted: Nov 23, 2005 8:00pm
Well just look at what magic got me..
{---- that's the wife.
June 22 2012 9:02 AM baby Usnavi was born!
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Roki
Special user
London
640 Posts
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Posted: Nov 23, 2005 9:30pm
Congratulations Paisa , you must be good !!! If you want to know how its done folks read the post above .
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paisa23
Inner circle
7 years no smoking. And counting
6387 Posts
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Posted: Nov 23, 2005 9:37pm
LOL want you guys to know that was a joke. Well half of one. I did propose to her in a magical way..
June 22 2012 9:02 AM baby Usnavi was born!
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Parson Smith
Quality Control
1938 Posts
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Posted: Nov 28, 2005 2:32am
Paisa23,
Put the avatar of you and your wife back up.
You looked twice as good.
Peace,
Parson
Here kitty, kitty,kitty. 
+++a posse ad esse+++
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paisa23
Inner circle
7 years no smoking. And counting
6387 Posts
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Posted: Nov 28, 2005 8:42am
Ok I understand I will do that tonight..
June 22 2012 9:02 AM baby Usnavi was born!
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Magic Spank
Veteran user
Las Vegas
320 Posts
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Posted: Nov 30, 2005 4:26am
It's pheromones man. You can blow every trick and the girl will still like you if you are giving off the right pheromones. Not much you can do about it except maybe buy some sex pheromone cologne.
But it also doesn't hurt to make suggestive coments during your magic like, "What does THAT remind you of?", as you show her just about anything pointy. And, "Hey,I'm rich. Let's leave"
Rob
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magicman226
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Loyal user
San Antonio, Texas
234 Posts
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Posted: Dec 25, 2005 2:30pm
Just be cute like me
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Dynamike
Eternal Order
20625 Posts
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Posted: Jan 23, 2006 9:54pm
I think magic is the best ice breaker.
Dynamike
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The Mac
Inner circle
South Africa
1921 Posts
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Posted: Feb 4, 2006 4:31pm
I see a lot of negative opinions.. but the thing is you patter or your magic is simply not congruent with meetin and entertaining girls..
I do the Derren Browns Zamiels rose..let me tell you - IT impresses to the the point where they invariably want to meet again..this leads to talking etc. Women ove artists and magic is a rare art..They also love a man with passion - when you are pasisonate about your magic and life that reaches dep inside her..takling about dreams and desires..
If you tried a 2 card monte on a woman and expect a reaction then you are doing the wrong magic..try Paul Harris' Deep astonishment and Twilight Angels, Derren Browns Zamiel Rose for starters.
All I can sayis is sparks interest and works wonders for me..maybe its better (for me) if you guys don't use it!
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