Thanks Magnus! I'm a happy guy. And I have a happy woman, what more could a man want?

"Typically, bad boys attract woman and keep them until the woman finds out what an a-hole they really are."

I suspect you've got that wrong. I've witnessed so many people give their all to sustain a bad relationship with an a-hole, while others lucky enough to have decent partners wander off in search of more excitement.

Not an ideal example, but I once had a stripper in a club I managed, explain to me that her boyfriend could not possibly love her because he'd never hit her.

Mind you the poor girl didn't get a great start in life with the mother the Gods visited on her. Her mother once rang me concerned about her daughter and the boyfriends drug use. I was a little surprised as she'd recently been busted for some metre high marijuana plants in her backyard and possession of a bong. She was most indignant when I brought this up.

"I use drugs - they ab-use drugs!"

Girls are funny.... I use to drive past the jail on the way to work every morning and on Mondays the best looking girls would be waiting for their fella's. This was in a town full of well paid engineers who couldn't get a date on their best day. Ol' Doug must have something going on, he's regularly getting new 'unz.

Not really. Since my wife died in Nov of 2006, I only had one girlfriend before I met my current fiance. That really can't be considered alot.

I've not had a single girlfriend in 23 years.....

Yes, but what about the married ones?

I remember someone writing Playboy once that girls always claim to respect the "Alan Alda" types, but always seem to leave the bar with the "Christian Slaters"

Since I married my high school sweetheart, I can't speak for the truth of the statement.

I'm kinda in the dark here, because I've never really watched Christian Slater, but I'm very familiar with Ala Alda. (Old M*A*S*H fan from way back)

Christain Slater is best known for his ability to kill any series he is on.

Thanks for the info!

Basically they claim to respect the "sweet guy" but always end up going with the "bad boy."

My friend David Shade has a lot of insight into the subject. He puts it this way:

I once had a wife who cheated on me for a badboy. If you
are a 'nice guy' chances are you have had this happen to you
at least once.

After I got over wanting to kick the crap out of him, and the
depression of my divorce... I decided to find out why women
are so hot for badboys.

Listen, it's no secret badboys tend to get the girls, while
nice guys don't. But, they can't keep the girls, at least
not the smart ones.

Women are often seen crying on the shoulder of a nice guy
"friend" as she suffers through the extreme emotional highs
and lows of a relationship with a badboy "lover." (Don't YOU
ever be the 'shoulder guy', let some other guy do it.)

Here is what I have learned through years of research and
field testing:

Badboys are exciting.

For a woman, the sex is awesome with a badboy. He is
dominant, he talks dirty to her, he makes her do things she
is too inhibited to do, and she loves it.

It makes her feel attractive, sensual and very feminine. It
is extremely exciting for a woman to experience these intense
feelings.

Badboys are masculine.

The feminine in a woman is attracted to the masculine in a
man. And with a badboy, it is extreme. It is this contrast
which is so alluring to a woman. It makes her feel sexy and
feminine.


Why Women CRAVE Badboys

Here are the parts of a badboy women find absolutely
irresistible:

1. Badboys lead an exciting life.

They are daring and live on the edge. Women want
to be part of it to make their own life more
exciting.

2. Badboys are mysterious.

They have a dark side that women are endlessly
curious to know. She never really feels she knows
him.

3. Badboys cannot be tamed.

Women are nurturing creatures, and are thus
compelled to save him. She is determined to rescue
him by teaching him how to love.

4. Badboys are fearless with women.

He will woo her by being sweet and gentlemanly,
while she is drawn to his masculine confidence.

5. Badboys are addictive.

She becomes so wrapped up in her experience that
she realizes she needs it. And the badboy knows
it.

6. Women know badboys can ravage them.

And I'm talking about the dangerous to know,
impossible to tame, badboy. (And I'm talking about
MOST women, at least once in their lives.)


But, badboys have very unappealing traits as well. Once she
becomes addicted to him, the ugly side of the badboy comes
out.

* Badboys are selfish. He inconsiderately takes
and takes, and she gladly gives and gives even more
in order to keep him because she is addicted to the
exciting sex.

* Badboys are secretive. She begins to notice
things he is keeping from her. Things about his
dark side which would be self incriminating.

* Badboys make promises of fidelity and then deny
their indiscretions. When she learns he has
cheated, she is hurt, but she needs it, so she
works even harder to save him.

* Badboys are paranoid. He knows other men do
exactly the same thing. Thus, he becomes very
jealous and possessive of his women. He becomes
controlling in order to keep her to himself.

(Note: these behaviors are actually
the opposite of a strong masculine man
and is another form of weakness.)

Most every highly sexual woman has at least once in her life
been with a badboy. This is true for both high self esteem
and low self esteem women.

For the high self esteem woman, she eventually can't take the
drama any more, and she leaves him. It is probably the most
emotionally traumatic thing she will ever do. It is heart
wrenching for her because she has become so addicted to the
awesome sex.

After a woman has been through the roller coaster ride with a
badboy, she will forever avoid inconsiderate jerks. But she
will always crave those intense sexual feelings.

Let me repeat:

She will ALWAYS crave those
intense sexual feelings


And it is because she craves those intense sexual feelings
there is a tremendous opportunity for you. So you can thank
the badboys for doing some of the preparation work for you.

I have studied the badboys for many years, because I wanted
to have the same kind of powerful affect on women.

But I was determined to go beyond just badboy and come up
with a formula to make women weak at the knees with passion.
To figure out everything it takes to have both a powerful
badboy magnetic affect on women and combining the compassion
and caring of the nice guy, because when you can do this...

It makes the everything in the bedroom
absolutely mind-blowing!



So when you step into a woman's life, she sees she could have
all the things she has always wanted, and she begins to
become excited about the possibilities.

* You are masculine without being macho.

* You are dominant without being domineering.

* You are exciting without being reckless.

* You are mysterious without being deceiving.

* You are considerate without being placating.

* You are strong yet gentle.

* You are forthright and trustworthy.

* You are sexually exciting in the bedroom and a gentleman in
the living room.

* You are a man in every respect.

* You are a Masterful Lover!


She will think she has won the man lottery! And better yet,
she will do ANYTHING to please you. She will brag to her
friends. She won't even look at other men, because she will
have everything she has ever wanted in a man.


Where Nice Guys Go Wrong

Badboys are aggressive. Nice guys are polite. And thus, a
lot of "reforming nice guys" who want to be "exciting
badboys" will try to act aggressive. But they just end up
being rude wimps.

Listen, a lot of it has to do with context. Women want to be
treated like a lady in the living room and ravaged like the
wild wanton woman she loves to be in the bedroom.

This is the most basic secret of being a Masterful Lover:

Nice guy in the living room
Badboy in the bedroom.

Got it?

Excellent!

If you want to know more about my badboy research, you can
find it all in my bestselling book "The Secrets Of Female
Sexuality" (available on Amazon.com)

In it you'll discover everything you need to know to be the
kind of man who has a powerful affect on women. Plus all the
things to drive her crazy and bring out the wild animal in
her.


Give women incredible pleasure,

David Shade


P.S. If you have questions, go to my "Ask David Shade" page
on my website and enter your question. I can't promise you I
will answer personally, but I might if the question is really
unique.

http://www.AskDavidShade.com

And I love to hear success stories too. Success stories
ALWAYS get a personal response.

My wife was a teacher and she was standing with this little four year old girl and her parents, both professors at San Jose State University and very 'straight'. The girl sees this great kid Michael who was very lively and known as a trouble maker and she says "Hi Michael!" and waves, she then turns to her mother and said "I like bad boys", the look of terror on the parents faces was great.

Even from an early age....

I was the "shoulder guy" on two different occasions for the woman I ended up marrying.
32 years now and counting.