Hi, I really need to vent. Here it goes. I met this great girl. We have been friends for a while. Now, she likes me. I like her. It works, it fits but I asked her out and she thought I was joking around and I didn't get an answer so I asked again then she said she had to go.

Now, her cousins I after blood she broke up a fight between me and her 4 cousins, lucky for me I came off better in that fight. I have loyal friends and we are all around the six foot mark but now I can't talk to her alone. She is surrounded by her cousins, they won't let me near her what am I supposed to do?
Luke

Drop her like a bad habit. There is NOT one woman for one man out there. Let her see you in the presence of other ladies having fun and if she had any feelings for you at all she will tell her cousins to bugger off.

Right now it sounds like she's got you dancing like a puppet on a string.

Just my 2 drakma worth,
Doug

Watch "West Side Story".

If you start fighting over a woman you've lost it mate.

There's plenty more fish in the sea.

howard

I concur with Howard. There are plenty more women out there. Good Luck!
Jason

Am I the only person that cannot understand his post?

Where are the Grammar Hosts when you need them!

Chris

Seismic,

I think it is written in Machine Code.



Howard

LoL Howard!


Well I can better understand the post now. Thanks Grammar Hosts!

I think he should go along with everyone's advice. Forget the girl and move on. Unless you 2 run away like Romeo and Juliet.


Chris

Seismic

Have you seen the size of the Isle Of Wight? Probably be able run round it after lunch. I think its only 10x20 miles.

Howard

10 X 20 MILES! I got winded just reading the post. I'd be in trouble for sure. I get out of breath just Jumping To A Conclusion.

Doug

If you REALLY like her just try and be friendly to other females and if she really likes you, she will come back to you. If you don't like her THAT much....yeah, there's plenty more fish in the sea.

You most certainly scared her for one and two you ruined a good friendship by misreading a few things....

It is tough but, if you give her some space...then all of the things that made your friendship special in the first place will hopefully be enough to bring her back into the arms of the caring and sharing individual she once knew...

I suspect there are a few details to your story which were absent from your post as well...?

Leave her alone for a while but, casually remind her that you are still the same person who is always there for her....

Many blessings of health and wisdom....in reverse order of course,

RR

Date an older woman. It is said that old chickens make good soup.

vinny

Luke, go for it man!!! although I'm in another part of the world, I hope you will be successful and remember to beat the **** out of her cousins, to show a man you really are!!!

Oh one very important piece of advice for you my little lovesick friend...

Never ask or take advice from Cads.....!

Best of fortunes...

Luke..sounds like this may be your "first" real love ?

Just do what you think is the right way to go,
its not the end of the World either way..
its all part of "Growing Up".


Howard

ok, ok, I have another solution. try to get beaten up by her cousins, portraying you are the innocent party. Let her see your blood & wounds, make her feel pity for you.......I feel I'm so evil......

That's more my style 81. Now you're thinking.....!

This thread is lots of fun....say we're all just talking to each other?...

Notice, Luke hasn't been around since?...Maybe the cousins have already made him squeel like a pig....

Just kiddin' Luke...it is a shame for us to have fun at your expense.....but, the advice from me still stands....

Luke,

If you love someone,
set them free...

If they don't come back,
get drunk and call them at 3 in the morning!

(Disclaimer : the preceeding doesn't actually work)
Tim

One thing, people want what they can't get.

You really want her even more now, because you cant get her, and that &%$& you off. If you just stay cool, don't try and talk to her, even slightly snob her, she'll fall.

Reverse psycology.

Hope that helps.