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daffydoug Eternal Order Look mom! I've got 14077 Posts |
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On 2010-01-07 11:21, Magnus Eisengrim wrote: Thanks Magnus! I'm a happy guy. And I have a happy woman, what more could a man want?
The difficult must become easy, the easy beautiful and the beautiful magical.
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Destiny Inner circle 1429 Posts |
"Typically, bad boys attract woman and keep them until the woman finds out what an a-hole they really are."
I suspect you've got that wrong. I've witnessed so many people give their all to sustain a bad relationship with an a-hole, while others lucky enough to have decent partners wander off in search of more excitement. Not an ideal example, but I once had a stripper in a club I managed, explain to me that her boyfriend could not possibly love her because he'd never hit her. Mind you the poor girl didn't get a great start in life with the mother the Gods visited on her. Her mother once rang me concerned about her daughter and the boyfriends drug use. I was a little surprised as she'd recently been busted for some metre high marijuana plants in her backyard and possession of a bong. She was most indignant when I brought this up. "I use drugs - they ab-use drugs!" |
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MagicSanta Inner circle Northern Nevada 5841 Posts |
Girls are funny.... I use to drive past the jail on the way to work every morning and on Mondays the best looking girls would be waiting for their fella's. This was in a town full of well paid engineers who couldn't get a date on their best day. Ol' Doug must have something going on, he's regularly getting new 'unz.
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daffydoug Eternal Order Look mom! I've got 14077 Posts |
Not really. Since my wife died in Nov of 2006, I only had one girlfriend before I met my current fiance. That really can't be considered alot.
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MagicSanta Inner circle Northern Nevada 5841 Posts |
I've not had a single girlfriend in 23 years.....
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landmark Inner circle within a triangle 5194 Posts |
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On 2010-01-09 00:30, MagicSanta wrote: Yes, but what about the married ones?
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ed rhodes Inner circle Rhode Island 2885 Posts |
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On 2010-01-07 20:18, daffydoug wrote: I remember someone writing Playboy once that girls always claim to respect the "Alan Alda" types, but always seem to leave the bar with the "Christian Slaters" Since I married my high school sweetheart, I can't speak for the truth of the statement.
"...and if you're too afraid of goin' astray, you won't go anywhere." - Granny Weatherwax
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daffydoug Eternal Order Look mom! I've got 14077 Posts |
I'm kinda in the dark here, because I've never really watched Christian Slater, but I'm very familiar with Ala Alda. (Old M*A*S*H fan from way back)
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MagicSanta Inner circle Northern Nevada 5841 Posts |
Christain Slater is best known for his ability to kill any series he is on.
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daffydoug Eternal Order Look mom! I've got 14077 Posts |
Thanks for the info!
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ed rhodes Inner circle Rhode Island 2885 Posts |
Basically they claim to respect the "sweet guy" but always end up going with the "bad boy."
"...and if you're too afraid of goin' astray, you won't go anywhere." - Granny Weatherwax
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daffydoug Eternal Order Look mom! I've got 14077 Posts |
My friend David Shade has a lot of insight into the subject. He puts it this way:
I once had a wife who cheated on me for a badboy. If you are a 'nice guy' chances are you have had this happen to you at least once. After I got over wanting to kick the crap out of him, and the depression of my divorce... I decided to find out why women are so hot for badboys. Listen, it's no secret badboys tend to get the girls, while nice guys don't. But, they can't keep the girls, at least not the smart ones. Women are often seen crying on the shoulder of a nice guy "friend" as she suffers through the extreme emotional highs and lows of a relationship with a badboy "lover." (Don't YOU ever be the 'shoulder guy', let some other guy do it.) Here is what I have learned through years of research and field testing: Badboys are exciting. For a woman, the sex is awesome with a badboy. He is dominant, he talks dirty to her, he makes her do things she is too inhibited to do, and she loves it. It makes her feel attractive, sensual and very feminine. It is extremely exciting for a woman to experience these intense feelings. Badboys are masculine. The feminine in a woman is attracted to the masculine in a man. And with a badboy, it is extreme. It is this contrast which is so alluring to a woman. It makes her feel sexy and feminine. Why Women CRAVE Badboys Here are the parts of a badboy women find absolutely irresistible: 1. Badboys lead an exciting life. They are daring and live on the edge. Women want to be part of it to make their own life more exciting. 2. Badboys are mysterious. They have a dark side that women are endlessly curious to know. She never really feels she knows him. 3. Badboys cannot be tamed. Women are nurturing creatures, and are thus compelled to save him. She is determined to rescue him by teaching him how to love. 4. Badboys are fearless with women. He will woo her by being sweet and gentlemanly, while she is drawn to his masculine confidence. 5. Badboys are addictive. She becomes so wrapped up in her experience that she realizes she needs it. And the badboy knows it. 6. Women know badboys can ravage them. And I'm talking about the dangerous to know, impossible to tame, badboy. (And I'm talking about MOST women, at least once in their lives.) But, badboys have very unappealing traits as well. Once she becomes addicted to him, the ugly side of the badboy comes out. * Badboys are selfish. He inconsiderately takes and takes, and she gladly gives and gives even more in order to keep him because she is addicted to the exciting sex. * Badboys are secretive. She begins to notice things he is keeping from her. Things about his dark side which would be self incriminating. * Badboys make promises of fidelity and then deny their indiscretions. When she learns he has cheated, she is hurt, but she needs it, so she works even harder to save him. * Badboys are paranoid. He knows other men do exactly the same thing. Thus, he becomes very jealous and possessive of his women. He becomes controlling in order to keep her to himself. (Note: these behaviors are actually the opposite of a strong masculine man and is another form of weakness.) Most every highly sexual woman has at least once in her life been with a badboy. This is true for both high self esteem and low self esteem women. For the high self esteem woman, she eventually can't take the drama any more, and she leaves him. It is probably the most emotionally traumatic thing she will ever do. It is heart wrenching for her because she has become so addicted to the awesome sex. After a woman has been through the roller coaster ride with a badboy, she will forever avoid inconsiderate jerks. But she will always crave those intense sexual feelings. Let me repeat: She will ALWAYS crave those intense sexual feelings And it is because she craves those intense sexual feelings there is a tremendous opportunity for you. So you can thank the badboys for doing some of the preparation work for you. I have studied the badboys for many years, because I wanted to have the same kind of powerful affect on women. But I was determined to go beyond just badboy and come up with a formula to make women weak at the knees with passion. To figure out everything it takes to have both a powerful badboy magnetic affect on women and combining the compassion and caring of the nice guy, because when you can do this... It makes the everything in the bedroom absolutely mind-blowing! So when you step into a woman's life, she sees she could have all the things she has always wanted, and she begins to become excited about the possibilities. * You are masculine without being macho. * You are dominant without being domineering. * You are exciting without being reckless. * You are mysterious without being deceiving. * You are considerate without being placating. * You are strong yet gentle. * You are forthright and trustworthy. * You are sexually exciting in the bedroom and a gentleman in the living room. * You are a man in every respect. * You are a Masterful Lover! She will think she has won the man lottery! And better yet, she will do ANYTHING to please you. She will brag to her friends. She won't even look at other men, because she will have everything she has ever wanted in a man. Where Nice Guys Go Wrong Badboys are aggressive. Nice guys are polite. And thus, a lot of "reforming nice guys" who want to be "exciting badboys" will try to act aggressive. But they just end up being rude wimps. Listen, a lot of it has to do with context. Women want to be treated like a lady in the living room and ravaged like the wild wanton woman she loves to be in the bedroom. This is the most basic secret of being a Masterful Lover: Nice guy in the living room Badboy in the bedroom. Got it? Excellent! If you want to know more about my badboy research, you can find it all in my bestselling book "The Secrets Of Female Sexuality" (available on Amazon.com) In it you'll discover everything you need to know to be the kind of man who has a powerful affect on women. Plus all the things to drive her crazy and bring out the wild animal in her. Give women incredible pleasure, David Shade P.S. If you have questions, go to my "Ask David Shade" page on my website and enter your question. I can't promise you I will answer personally, but I might if the question is really unique. http://www.AskDavidShade.com And I love to hear success stories too. Success stories ALWAYS get a personal response.
The difficult must become easy, the easy beautiful and the beautiful magical.
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MagicSanta Inner circle Northern Nevada 5841 Posts |
My wife was a teacher and she was standing with this little four year old girl and her parents, both professors at San Jose State University and very 'straight'. The girl sees this great kid Michael who was very lively and known as a trouble maker and she says "Hi Michael!" and waves, she then turns to her mother and said "I like bad boys", the look of terror on the parents faces was great.
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daffydoug Eternal Order Look mom! I've got 14077 Posts |
Even from an early age....
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ed rhodes Inner circle Rhode Island 2885 Posts |
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On 2010-01-12 09:03, daffydoug wrote: I was the "shoulder guy" on two different occasions for the woman I ended up marrying. 32 years now and counting.
"...and if you're too afraid of goin' astray, you won't go anywhere." - Granny Weatherwax
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