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A friend of a friend told me that he knows a couple that is married about decades and got the love from the fairy-tales - not the real-existing love.. does anybody believe this?
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Huh???
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Real-existing love!

What a concept! Smile
"Dreams aren't a matter of Chance but a matter of Choice." -DC-
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Similar to socialism from the book and real existing socialism.. ;-)
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I think love exists but as far as relationships go...not for me...at least not for more than three years then she runs off with the ring. Love is real as you or I.

Love,
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Love is when you desire nobody else than your partner. This assumption is funny related to a species that is polygam not monogam (comes from monkeys, not from birds).
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Smile I love your comment backinblack
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Thank you.
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"Love is finding that one special person who will destroy you slower than anyone else." - Emo Phillips
"He was born with the gift of laughter and a sense that the world was mad." - Rafael Sabatini, Scaramouche
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On 2010-10-06 23:53, ed rhodes wrote:
"Love is finding that one special person who will destroy you slower than anyone else." - Emo Phillips


if you ask a psychologist for couples he might take that sentence as a symbol for the many friend of friend sentences about love.. ;-)

a sentence that might fit better for real existing love:

"love is the wonderfull ability to see a person as he/she not is"
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Love is the most powerful energy we humans have. Smile
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On 2010-10-27 11:01, Pakar Ilusi wrote:
Love is the most powerful energy we humans have. Smile


people do not do revolutions cause of love but cause of freedom. kicking an entire system including its executive is the most powerfull thing people can do.
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On 2010-10-27 11:01, Pakar Ilusi wrote:
Love is the most powerful energy we humans have. Smile


people do not do revolutions cause of love but cause of freedom. kicking an entire system including its executive is the most powerfull thing people can do.


That's love of being free actually.
"Dreams aren't a matter of Chance but a matter of Choice." -DC-
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No. freedom on the macro-perspective is the demand/desire for no suppression. nobody who controlls and dominates you by law besites the rules of freedom.

in the micro-perspective the equivalent is: accepting nobody who tells you what to do just to take your freedom in the name of whatever. in our polygamous species e.g. nobody who tells you who you are allowed to have sex with. "who I have sex with is my decision - nobodys else" (from: queer as folks)
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And it all stems from love. Smile
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In the fairy tales: sure. "Dreams aren't a matter of Facts but a matter of Choice of Fiction." - you know?

in reality: real existing love is just a euphemism for a relationship-system of controll. that leads to minored freedom than people give each other in the friendship-system e.g.

the stem for relationships is possibilities. this is the unit freedom is counted in. if love for the big brother in cambodia or love to the big leader in germany: words do not change the degree of freedom people have in real life.
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On 2010-10-27 16:52, Pakar Ilusi wrote:
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On 2010-10-27 13:52, backinblack wrote:
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On 2010-10-27 11:01, Pakar Ilusi wrote:
Love is the most powerful energy we humans have. Smile


people do not do revolutions cause of love but cause of freedom. kicking an entire system including its executive is the most powerfull thing people can do.


That's love of being free actually.


"One evening, when I was yet in my nurse’s arms, I wanted to touch the
tea urn, which was boiling merrily... My nurse would have taken me away
from the urn, but my mother said 'Let him touch it.' So I touched it --
and that was my first lesson in the meaning of liberty."
-- John Ruskin
(1819-1900) British author, artist, social critic
Source: The Story of Arachne, 1870
"Is there any point to which you would wish to draw my attention?"
"To the curious incident of the dog in the night-time."
"The dog did nothing in the night-time."
"That was the curious incident," remarked Sherlock Holmes.
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On 2010-10-28 07:41, panlives wrote:
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On 2010-10-27 16:52, Pakar Ilusi wrote:
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On 2010-10-27 13:52, backinblack wrote:
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On 2010-10-27 11:01, Pakar Ilusi wrote:
Love is the most powerful energy we humans have. Smile


people do not do revolutions cause of love but cause of freedom. kicking an entire system including its executive is the most powerfull thing people can do.


That's love of being free actually.


"One evening, when I was yet in my nurse’s arms, I wanted to touch the
tea urn, which was boiling merrily... My nurse would have taken me away
from the urn, but my mother said 'Let him touch it.' So I touched it --
and that was my first lesson in the meaning of liberty."
-- John Ruskin
(1819-1900) British author, artist, social critic
Source: The Story of Arachne, 1870


I like that. at least there is a difference between liberty for kids and liberty of adults, but anyhow..

question is: do people learn from their experience with their own demands in partnerships/love? what about their ability to talk straight and honest to their partners about them?
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JUST FEEL THE LOVE EVERYONE! Smile Smile Smile

Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile
"Dreams aren't a matter of Chance but a matter of Choice." -DC-
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People who feel the real existing love are usually those who have a minor degree of allowense/granting to those they pretend to wish all good for (especially if it violates the narcissim of the freedom-taking individuum).. leads back to what I allready wrote about freedom and taking possibilities from each other in the name of whatever..
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