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Pakar Ilusi
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Wow, this is so bringing me down.

I just found out that one of my uncles just passed away, killed in a hit and run motorcycle accident... Smile

He was my uncle by marriage.

While he was my uncle by title, he was actually younger than I. (My granduncle had many children. My deceased uncle married the youngest daughter, my auntie.)

Wow, life really is fleeting. He wasn't yet 35.

He is survived by my auntie and two children, his toddler son and a baby girl.

Please pray they get through this with strength.

This is so very sad. Smile
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So sorry to hear this Pakar. You have my deepest sympathies and my prayers go to all of your family.

Sincerely,

Bob
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Thanks Bob.

I hope I don't break down when I see them later (it's 3 o'clock in the morning here as I type this fyi)...

Especially the little kids. Smile
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I am very sorry to hear this. Be close with those who matter the most.

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Thanks John.

I never imagined The Café would be a place I turned to for this sort of thing...

Thanks again. Smile
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Pakar. I am so sorry for your grief.

Go ahead and break down.
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Sorry to hear this. I hope for everyone's peace of mind.
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Very sorry to hear this. Best wishes to you and yours.
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Tom, landmark, balducci...

Thanks. Smile
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Pakar...very, very sorry to hear. Hang in there.
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Sorry bro.
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We are thinking of you and your Family Pakar.

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So sorry to hear about your loss Pakar, losing a member of the family is always hard.
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I am sorry to hear about your young uncle and all of that Parkar. May he rest in peace and sympathies to you and your family. I have lost many of my family but no one that was younger than I was at the time. It must be so much worse to lose someone younger. When I was little, about 4 years old, I was in a shop with my elder brother who was 14 at the time. I ran out of the shop into the road and I was hit by a motorcycle. It knocked me summer saulting right up into the air. My brother, who had ran after me, trying to stop me, saw it all and was sure I had been killed. I think I was knocked out for a while but I just got up, with nothing wrong with me at all. All I recall about it, is the glove, the motorcycist gauntlet glove, coming towards my chin. It affected my brother more and he still goes cold thinking about it. I guess because I was so young. I hope your uncle, was knocked out as I was and did not feel it. As for that fellow who hit him and did no stop afterwards that must make it even more difficult to deal with.
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Lobo, critter, Mary, Josh and tommy...

Thank you for the support. Smile

I am fine but I can only imagine what my auntie is going through. She is trying her best to be strong for her young kids, which is all the more heartbreaking.

The kids are however spared the realization of the gravity of the situation as they are so young, especially the one year old. Well, at least it seemed that way to me.

I usually see the rainbow through the rain, or at least try to, but...

This is just so sad. Smile
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If only the drivers could see these kinds of messages and be reminded that the pain they cause affects real people. Maybe they'd be more careful then.
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On 2011-12-04 10:51, critter wrote:
If only the drivers could see these kinds of messages and be reminded that the pain they cause affects real people. Maybe they'd be more careful then.


IF is such a painful word now... Smile

If he did not motorbike in the rain.

If he had waited till the rain stopped.

If... You know...

But I know what you mean critter.

Thanks bro...
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Prayers from New York.... Sorry for your loss
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Sorry for your loss.
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MagicB1S and Josh...

Thanks... Smile
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