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At times some of us do feel a little negligence towards another kids' entertainer. I happen to notice it in certain threads. It took me some time to put the puzzle together. What helps me to connect the pieces is I have felt the same situation too. Anyone notices when an individual wins a million pounds/dollars from a lottery? At times I had the feeling I wish it was me instead. I never met the individual who won, but still feel some type of jealously.

Picture how David Blaine made it to the top of being well known. A lot of magicians know they could have done just as good. You guys can throw me in the circle too for feeling the same towards him. He met the right person to put him on the spot. I know a lot of magicians who are better with close-up. But the promoter was looking for a certain personality and character to get the viewers attention so they will keep watching the show. It works the same for tv episodes. The first show is the pilot. David Blaine did good for his pilot. I wish I was where he was the right place the right time before he met that right person.

Of course if David performed his magic the common way, I bet he would not have made it to where he is. Since he followed his director instructions, his magic showed a different manner. The viewers enjoyed watching something performed differently. If most of you guys ran into his producer the right time, I bet you would have made it to where David is now.

We all entertain kids. Look at Eric for example. His show is very different from the way most of us perform. He ran into the right people who wanted to see something different. He became well known. That is how he got popular for what he does. His name is well known hundreds of miles/kilometers around him. What he does is what many people want to see for their children. Now remember he does not perform for all ages, just the ones within his age frame, 2-6 year olds. I can not find anything he is doing wrong. Even though he uses a few magic tricks in his show, he still does not call himself a professional magician.

I heard Silly Billy is known as a clown. I bet there are some clowns that feel negligence of him. He made his smart move by being different from others. He is a clown that does not scare kids from wearing make-up and performs magic tricks.

Some magicians will feel a little jealousy towards another. I see nothing wrong with feeling that way because it helps proves the individual has an high ego. The only way it will play wrong is if the individual lets it out towards others. The individual should work on making improvements instead. I used to be the number entertainer in my area. But now a hip hop clown who is also a DJ and raps in his gigs passed me. Here he is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ICCCNFVtfkE Detroit likes hip hop. That is what I must focus on to catch up with him.

Let us all feel good about each other. If you do feel jealously, do not show it by complaining about someone else. It proves you are just as strong. Let us work on learning more and making improvements. Let us all be one big team.
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Well said Mike. Very well said.

Very hard to stand out while standing in the middle of the crowd. One must take that one bold step to set their self apart from the rest

I never could understand all the jealously in magic myself. Magic has more than its fair share of jealous people for sure. Maybe it's because we grew up guarding 'secrets' and we just can't let go and be as giving as we should. I don't know.

Maybe one day the mind experts will do a study to find out why a magicians brain is a little one sided. Smile


Still, I love you all.

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It's an insecure world, it seems, not sure why. I agree, Tom, Great post, Mike
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People who hate other people usually see something in them they don't have themselves. You learn this in psychology 101.

Here's an example. Someone cut's in front of you at the checkout line and you become angry. Part of that anger is that you yourself, can not see yourself being so aggressive - however you wish you could. That does not mean that you will, it just means you feel slightly in-antiquate.
A second example is the poor person vs. the rich person. The poor dislike the rich because they see them as taking advantage of others while the rich think the poor don't work hard enough. In each case one sector secretly wishes they had a little bit of what the other has.

In the case of magicians, The corporate magician hates the party clown for making a living without jumping through hoops and/or uses boxes as opposed to using their minds. The party clown hates the corporate performer for selling-out and towing the "man's" line... which is not pure entertainment.

Magicians and actors are generally incucure. If I am a magician, then I perform miracles others can not.... but if there is a guy down the street that can do better miracles or bigger miracles then me, then I feel threatened. So please don't move down the street from me Smile
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I love watching corporate guys. I like watching performers all the time, if I could. A trick that takes skill or a self working trick doesn't make that much of a difference in the mind of a kid show audience, but seems to be huge in the mind of performers watching other performers. If kids are entertained, it doesn't matter how you get there
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This is a great post, Mike. I've felt this, too. Part of it is the nature of entrepreneurship, I think. Right? We all want to be the best at what we do. I think that holds true for anything. So there's that. But I also think that the type of person s/he is will dictate the type of magician s/he is. I've met some magicians who were not very friendly to other magicians (or maybe just to me?), or who come off conceited, and I just think to myself, "He would've been that way as a doctor, or teacher, or CEO." I know many magicians who are good people first, magicians second. Tommy James comes to mind. If you e-mail him and ask him something about one of his effects, or his performance--or ANYTHING, really--he will respond in a REAL way. He's a nice guy. And that's what he would've been as as a doctor or banker. He would've been nice! So I think being an entertainer just magnifies whatever we have "going on" in our psyches.
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Interesting thread Mike. It does seem like magicians, more than many other professions, get into ego trips and snipe at each other.
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I agree about Tommy. He comes across as extremely genuine and real
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I wrote about this very subject when I was guest of Honor on the Café last year. Here is the link:

http://www.themagiccafe.com/forums/viewt......um=330&7

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JR, since that thread is locked, please copy the first post on that thread and start a new thread in this forum too. It will be interesting to discuss since a lot of members missed it. I advise you to start a thread with the first post in the "Food For Thought" forum too. I would like to see their opinions.
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Sorry Mike..........but all the threads are locked after you have been guest of honour. That was the time to ask me questions. If anyone else would like to start the topic, or copy my post, that would be fine. If I was to do it myself, some might think I am being egotistical!!!! Smile JR

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Some magicians will feel a little jealousy towards another. I see nothing wrong with feeling that way because it helps proves the individual has an high ego. The only way it will play wrong is if the individual lets it out towards others. The individual should work on making improvements instead. I used to be the number entertainer in my area. But now a hip hop clown who is also a DJ and raps in his gigs passed me. Here he is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ICCCNFVtfkE Detroit likes hip hop. That is what I must focus on to catch up with him.

This is a great thread on many levels. Dynamike shared a link to a performer that I believe to be outstanding. There are a few things to consider. First, is the reaction one would have to someone like Smiley coming into your area and taking over the number one spot. The second thing is what to do about it. My suggestion would be to move in another direction performance wise because I believe it would be near impossible to beat Smiley at his game.
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I agree with you Charlie. I remember him calling me when he saw my name in the Yellow Pages about 20 years ago. He was new at clowning he asked me if it is good to be in the Yellow Pages. I told him "Yes." Next he joined. At first he was performing magic with his clown show. He stopped magic years later. He got popular with his hip hop style. I am not jealous of him. We are friends.

Of course I want to be the first place entertainer again in Detroit. I am learning a lot from the Café, not criticizing others. I learned about adding music to my show using Arthur's music. I want to add more physical kid reactions in my show. I want to put more comedy in my show. I am also thinking about adding more animals in my show.

I am a professional with magic, but I am average like other magicians in my area. The customer sees 45-60 minutes of magic. When Smiley stepped up, he opens different doors. Customers call him a lot because he is a whole different type of entertainment. He even pleases the adults as they listen far away to his hip hop music. His customers are getting 3 in 1, a clown, live rap, and a hip hop DJ. There is one female clown who is following Smiley with hip hop. She is still not as good as he is.
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Oh yea, Charlie. I forgot to mention my other method to compete against him was to why I became a clown. I started it about 4 years ago. I am the number one clown who performs magic in Metro Detroit. My customers are getting 2 in 1.
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On 2014-01-20 00:13, Jolly Roger wrote:
Another option is to purchase my soon to be published book, when all will be revealed: http://www.spiritualstage.com


......Soon?

We should all continue to learn as much as we can. Adding new gags and bits of business, keeps our shows fresh. On that front, though, I find it far more serendipitous to garner ideas from sitcoms, TV comedy shows, even soap operas.....where rich pickings are to be had....than to worry too much about other local entertainers.

New routines are fun to learn, and create. Learning a new skill is an even better way to up the game - the more variety, the more adaptable you become.

I personally believe that playing an instrument is a wonderful skill, as it means you can involve the whole audience, and get them all singing....

Maybe this year I'll learn to juggle better.

As to the jealousy thing, I admire talented performers, and I accept that many of the best performers don't ever make the big time. I see little correlation between earnings, fame and talent in the world of entertainment.

But those who work hard, are dedicated, driven, and creative, can and do earn a good living.

Bottom line is, if you're in entertainment for the fame and fortune, you've made a bad choice, since even if you find them, they are not the gates of Paradise. That is where you will find jealousy. If you do it because you love to perform, and it's part of your psyche, it's something you're driven to do, and there is no reason or place for jealousy.
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Well said Potty.
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I would like to add to this thread that often the we know little about the performers that critisize other performers or products. I think it is easy to assume jealousy when someone makes comments . But actually just because someone is realatively unknown to other magicians does not mean they are not very succesful on fact they could well be more than the person they are commenting on
It is not that difficult to become well known and assumed succesfull amongst magicians if that is your goal phil
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You have now made two threads pointing to the fact that some of us think that the great Z is not that great. (Successful yes no one is disputing that)
And because we don't were jealous that's just bolloc*ks
Think I Will make a thread about how some entertainers can't except that we all have different opinions and if we don't agree with there's were jealous
Let all not have opinion sit in a circle and agree
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I think a lot of the sentiments expressed in Dynamike's post are admirable, but I really hope that this thread hasn't come about (as Mr Shiney pointed out) because a couple of people (me being one of them) gave an honest opinion of a DVD.

I love Tom Hanks and enjoy most of his movies, but I hated 'Joe vs The Volcano' and 'The Bonfire of the Vanities'. If I give an honest opinion of these films it doesn't mean I'm jealous or that I hate Tom or that I am showing 'negligence' towards him (whatever Dynamike thinks that word means).

Back when I was working for Supreme, Edwin gave me some advice when I was attending conventions reviewing other performer's acts for the Magigram Magazine:

'Always give them 9 out of 10, but if they are really, really bad, give them an 8'

We are such sensitive souls and it does nothing to help improve our art. I have come to learn that when most magicians ask for an honest critique, what they are actually saying is 'praise me'.

Everyone should be looking to improve their act, as Dynamike says. Rest on your laurels and some young upstart with a better show will come along and steal all your gigs, just the way it happened with him.

If we are going to talk about insecurity, look at the reaction a bit of honest criticism gets.

I enjoyed and learned from Eric's first DVD - I'm still a fan of his and I'm looking forward immensely to the upcoming TV show based on him. A TV show about a kids' Entertainer - how cool is that!.

He seems to understand this and took my critique for what it was. If others enjoyed the second DVD then that's great. Shout it from the rooftops! Just live with the fact that not everyone shares your opinion and we can all get along fine.
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Kimmo, lol*I knew that my DVD would get criticism, my friend, no biggie. The only reason I posted at all wasn't because it was getting flamed, it was because Gary stated an untruth, and that was when I was like, 'whoa'. I want to meet you too. Have you ever been to DC?
BTW, on a separate note, Mr. Shiney, The random chaos and repetition is a planned, dissected thing on my part. I like having that look, in attire and props. Remember, before in DC, there was no Me-Nobody had seen an entertainer get away with not dressing up, etc. Never be afraid to be first and different. This is why I would work anywhere
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