Man, I couldn't agree on all points George.

Its a shame most magicians can't entertain by themselves and are so dependent on "volunteers' to execute their act.

Volunteers are needed, else who would pick the card? Lol

Just to add a few more thoughts: I think with kids it can be different but with adults, and this is a little something an old pro taught me long ago: Once you spot someone that you think would be a good helper, you should use an open palm (never point with a finger) and say something like, "You, right here, would you mind helping me out?" (Pointing with a finger sort of suggests you’re demanding, while extending an open palm up feels more like a welcoming invitation.)

A few that I would consider avoiding: The Heckler: Anyone who has been whispering or trying to "figure it out" loudly to their neighbor. The Terrified: If someone looks like they want to crawl under the table, don't pick them. It makes the audience uncomfortable to watch someone suffer. The Over-Eager: Sometimes the person jumping out of their seat is looking for a stage of their own and, not to help yours.

Tom

That's true.
The prevailing opinion about it is wrong.
We use the term carelessly

I've written this before: It all comes down to your attitude. The assistant is actually your partner. You have to treat them well.

And I've seen many magicians who treat neither the animal nor the necessary props well.

In my show I do not need any volunteer to come up and be part of the show until I am 15-20 minutes into it. This gives the audience enough time to relax, get to feel comfortable with me and for me to know who is having a great time and would add to the routine that I need them for.